Flower Diary: Mary Hiester Reid Paints, Travels, Marries & Opens a Door

Ten years ago, celebrated poet Molly Peacock turned to biography, creating a stunning examination of female late-life creativity in The Paper Garden. It became a bestseller and a touchstone for many readers. In Flower Diary: Mary Hiester Reid Paints, Travels, Marries & Opens a Door, the companion biography, Peacock looks at the balancing act of female creativity and domesticity in the life of Mary Hiester Reid, a painter who produced over three hundred stunning, emotive floral still lifes and landscapes. Born in the US in 1854, trained by Thomas Eakins at the Pennsylvania Academy of Fine Arts, Mary trailblazed a life where she fought for her place as a professional artist without having to live as a tragic heroine.

She married George Reid, a prominent Canadian painter, and moved with him to Toronto, though she kept a studio in the Catskill Mountains. But it was the Edwardian age, and while their relationship was more equal than most, it was Mary’s place to manage the domestic scene. So, how do you find the time to paint when you need to get to the market to buy a chicken for dinner? And how do you manage a marriage when your art student becomes your rival? One way was to move: MHR as she sometimes signed herself, packed up and went with her husband on steamship journeys to Europe five times. She wrote a travelog of Spain, lived in Paris, haunted museums to see her favorite paintings and learn techniques. She combined Arts and Crafts principals with Tonalism, infusing every painting with emotion, creating a Flower Diary.

With her poet’s sensibility, Peacock looks at one woman’s extraordinary life and the choices she made. As with The Paper Garden, Peacock also tracks her own marriage, and tells us the story of her husband, Michael Groden (1947-2021).

 

Winner of a Gold Medal in Biography from the Independent Publishers Book Awards and named a Quill & Quire Best Book of 2021

Listen:

Molly Peacock in conversation with Jennifer Dasal on Art Curious Podcast

Molly Peacock in conversation with Donna Bailey Nurse on Skylight Books Podcast

View:

Flower Diary in conversation with Georgiana Uhlyarik, Fredrik S. Eaton Curator, Canadian Art, AGO and Kathleen Foster, Robert L. McNeil, Jr., Senior Curator of American Art, Philadelphia Museum of Art., Art Gallery of Ontario.

Molly Peacock and Renee van der Avoird, Assistant Curator of Canadian Art, in Close Looking at the Art Gallery of Ontario

Molly Peacock and Dale Najarian at the Westport Public Library

Molly Peacock at the Pennsylvania Academy of the Fine Arts

Molly Peacock and Donna Bailey Nurse in conversation for Books in Common NW

Read:

Sarah Cascone lists FLOWER DIARY as one of ten new & essential books on women artists in Artnet News.

Kate Taylor interviews Molly Peacock in The Globe and Mail

Sue Carter reviews FLOWER DIARY in Quill and Quire

Sue Carter reviews FLOWER DIARY in Toronto Star

Carol Bishop-Gwyn reviews FLOWER DIARY in Literary Review of Canada

Ross King interviews Molly Peacock in Los Angeles Review of Books Blog

Lauren Moya Ford reviews FLOWER DIARY on Hyperallergic

Rohan Maitzen reviews FLOWER DIARY on Novel Readings

Molly Peacock in Shelf Awareness

Lorraine Kleinwaks in Enchanted Prose

The Flower Diary audiobook is now available!

Help me with the texture of her voice: is it silk, velvet, linen? Is it tapestry? Is it water sliding over a stone? Crisp and factual, but sensuous and relaxed. If you never thought you’d listen to a visually-oriented book, think again. Alicia Payne’s voice conjures up pictures!

“A meticulous biography that’s also an eloquent, sophisticated portrait of intimate relationships, this book is about many things: the discipline required to make fine art, the emotional resilience required to sustain a marriage, the emotional turbulence hiding inside ‘simple’ floral paintings.”

- Meghan Daum

 
 

Flower Diary Readings and Commentary

Part of the WRITE WORDS ALOUD series by filmmaker Godfrey Jordan

 

An Excerpt from

Flower Diary—

The Open Door

She left a door ajar, slipping through a threshold into the almost impossible-to-balance world of love and art. Over three hundred paintings and a lifelong commitment to a partner: she’s one of the artists from the past who made it possible to live and love in the present. Often, we who look for models of creativity learn the names of those who banged down doors and wrecked their own and others’ lives. But she, who mined a rich and unconventional interior life while clothed in discreet propriety, turned the handle more quietly. And handle is a word that belongs to this woman who made still lifes like diary pages and landscapes like dream logs. She planned and coped, sized up situations, then seized moments, managing a subtle ménage with her painter husband and their talented student in a stiff society, all the while making five transatlantic journeys and creating some of the most devastatingly expressive works you’ve likely never seen, signing them Mary Hiester Reid.

“Graceful yet precise, poetic yet deeply rooted in research, this exploration of an overlooked painter is a joy to read. Molly Peacock’s insights and empathy with her subject bring to life both Mary Hiester Reid and her luscious flower paintings.”

- Charlotte Gray

Reviews of Flower Diary

Flower Diary is written with the lingering observations and lyrical touch of an established poet, yet with an easygoing, conversational tone often lacking in didactic art biographies.”

Sue Carter, Quill & Quire

“In prose as subtle and enchanting as Mary Hiester Reid’s own brushstrokes, Flower Diary paints a compelling portrait of a talented and unjustly neglected painter. Molly Peacock is unfailingly sensitive and intelligent, and at times deeply moving, as she shows how, despite the shade of domestic life and the unfavourable climate of the times, MHR brought forth her bright blossoms.”

Ross King, author of Mad Enchantment: Claude Monet and the Painting of the Water Lilies

Under the lush fields and overflowing flower vases of Flower Diary lies many a bittersweet story. Molly Peacock renders them in self-effacing prose that brims with empathy for her subject, Mary Heister Reid.

Josee Siguin, goodreads.com

In her latest book Flower Diary: In Which Mary Hiester Reid Paints, Travels, Marries & Opens a Door, renowned poet Molly Peacock (The Analyst) reveals the world of a forgotten painter who managed both a trailblazing, successful career and a marriage in the Edwardian age. Weaving together elements of biography, memoir, and art history, she examines the balancing act between female creativity and domesticity in the life of Mary Hiester Reid (1854-1921).

Ross King, Los Angeles Review of Books Blog

This book is extraordinary! Peacock's devotion to her subject is amazing, especially combined with the measured, thoughtful way she responds to the arc of Mary Hiester Reid's life. The work is scholarly without being a test of patience, and enthusiastic without being a cheer.

Suzanne Rhodenbaugh, Goodreads.com

This book should be required reading for all aspiring female artists!

Margot Fedoruk, Goodreads.com

“Reading a book by Peacock is like listening in on a fascinating conversation, in which one can learn about philosophical concepts such as ukiyo, the Buddhist notion of the fleeting nature of life, one minute and about the Empathists, who suggested that a spectator and a painting share a unique space through “psychological connection,” or even about thought-provoking acknowledgements of traditional Indigenous territory the next.”

Carol Bishop-Gwyn, Literary Review of Canada

“As in her previous biography about Mary Delaney, the inventor of cut paper botanical collage, Peacock interlays Hiester Reid’s story with scenes from her own life. In this case, the author tells the story of her relationship with her late husband, who died last year. Peacock is also a poet, and her prose is lyrical and poignant.”

Lauren Moya Ford, Hyperallergic

Poet and author Molly Peacock has spent eight years researching the life of Mary Hiester Reid, a 19th-century American painter who, at 31, married Canadian artist George Agnew Reid, a fellow student at the Pennsylvania Academy of the Fine Arts. The result is Flower Diary: In Which Mary Hiester Reid Paints, Travels, Marries and Opens a Door, a speculative biography that follows Reid from Philadelphia to Paris, Madrid, Toronto and a summer artists’ colony in the Catskill Mountains to determine how she juggled her career and the household of her more famous husband. Peacock… discovered Reid when she was shown A Study in Greys, a 1913 image of two flower jugs and a pewter plate that echoes the famed tonalism of the American painter James McNeill Whistler. In that painting, as in Reid’s private life, a threesome becomes a theme.

Kate Taylor, The Globe & Mail

“Poet and nonfiction writer Molly Peacock offers a rich and thought-provoking exploration of 19th-century artist Mary Hiester Reid in Flower Diary: In Which Mary Hiester Reid Paints, Travels, Marries and Opens a Door. As she did in The Paper Garden, her wonderful book on the botanical artist Mary Delany, Peacock skillfully melds personal musings on the lives of creative women with her look at the historical life. Among other things, Flower Diary is insightful about the ways women had (and have) to juggle multiple roles and responsibilities to make time for a serious creative practice.”

Society Nineteen Journal

“I loved everything about this beautiful book … Flower Diary: In Which Mary Hiester Reid Paints, Travels, Marries & Opens a Door is gorgeously written, illustrated, and groundbreaking.”

Enchanted Prose

“Part memoir, part biography, this is a beautifully written and layered volume that opens its arms wide and encompasses art, domesticity, the intimacy of marriage and of death. Lush and beautifully produced.”

Sue Carter, Toronto Star

“Does it make her description any less plausible that it never would have occurred to me to read so much drama into these quietly lovely flowers? … “You see, but you do not observe,” Sherlock Holmes famously chides Dr. Watson: it takes a trained eye, a sympathetic eye, perhaps a poetic eye, to see what Peacock sees. Her poet’s words, of course, also make the difference between plain description and illumination.

Rohan Maitzen, Novel Readings

“In Flower Diary, Molly Peacock has produced an exquisitely unique work. A meticulous biography that’s also an eloquent, sophisticated portrait of intimate relationships, this book is about many things: the discipline required to make fine art, the emotional resilience required to sustain a marriage, the emotional turbulence hiding inside ‘simple’ floral paintings. Most of all, though, it’s a clear-eyed, unsentimental tribute to those who have the luck and fortitude to carry out their lives on their own terms. I devoured every detail, and was both moved and inspired.”

Meghan Daum, author of The Unspeakable: And Other Subjects Of Discussion

Flower Diary, published by ECW Press, with its carefully reproduced paintings, gorgeous endpapers and glossy paper stock, puts it in the running as the most stunning book to come out of Canadian publishing this year.”

Sue Carter, Toronto Star

Having already read The Paper Garden, I had fully expected to fall in love with Mary Hiester Reid. And, indeed, Molly Peacock very quietly--and very capably--introduced me to a woman I could love. But it was also a rare delight to see my city, the City of Toronto, through both Peacock’s and MHR’s eyes, at the remove of a century… Like my favourite books of Toronto--Michael Ondaatje's In the Skin of a Lion, Michael Redhill's Consolation--I tried to read Flower Diary by a busy window, so that I could marvel at a changing landscape and the remarkable people (fictional and real) who shaped it, and were shaped by it.

Emily McKibbon, Goodreads.com

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